​I wanted to take a moment to give a testimonial about one of my favorite people. She is truly someone I would call family. Marisa Anderson is an intuitive coach/consultant I have known for about 20 years. This woman is one of the most talented psychics I have ever worked with.
 
She now plays a role in my life of helping me to trust my Higher Self. Even the Transformational Coaches need a coach too! Sometimes intellect can be both a blessing and a hindrance and so I've used Marisa over the past few years to help me confirm what is truly coming from my Higher Self (awareness) and what is coming from Lower Self (ego).
 
Typically I'll write in a journal what is coming from Higher Self and answer questions I might have. Many times I have written down the answer to something that my mind just doesn't want to accept the truth about, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. In all cases, Marisa has always confirmed the information I get from my Higher Self.

Marisa has a loving heart and has also been a guardian angel for me and now you can take advantage too. I talked her into giving anyone in my group half off their FIRST session. Trust me, this was no easy feat, she knows her value. Sessions are normally $400 an hour. Now your first session is $200 for an hour and $50 each 15 min after that.
 
Let her know beforehand if you have a hard stop or a budget but for your first session, I would recommend at least 90 min and you can discuss that with her when you call her. To book a session, contact her at (845) 670-7052. You can use her contact form or email her at MarisaAnde@aol.com. Her website:  www.MarisaAnderson.com
 
Please let her know you found her through Matthew Marnitz to receive the discount and pay ahead here 

Okay so from my perspective there is no right or wrong and the only truth is love which is the fascia of the universe. Love is remembering our connection to God and that we are part of God and everything else is just an experience on the physical plane that we chose to incarnate into and have an experience.

Our Higher Minds' plan experiences down to a certain level of detail. In most cases, we would plan to be transsexual vs having it be something that went against our life's plan. Usually, these beings are some of the more advanced souls who have been through many lives on earth already and choose to take on more challenging lives for very quick soul growth and understanding of what others go through. The souls let go of a lot of personal karma perhaps picked up in other lives for being on the other side, judging transsexuals.

They also choose these lives to help the collective reduce their karma; by being of service to the collective and teaching them about judgment; learning about guilt and not taking things personally; being naive o darkness; deciding not to allow circumstances to affect your energy; and lastly, becoming empowered and teaching others how they can become empowered too.

In that process, they might decide to embrace their original sex or they might not. It doesn't matter because it is not a requirement for enlightenment. However, there are many (not all) cases where someone is confused about their sexuality because of abuses, changes in our hormones from our GMO food, and sexual perversion or focusing too much on sex.

There are also cases where a soul has advanced to higher realms and the more you advance the more androgynous one becomes. There are also cases where a soul chooses the experience of being a transsexual but with no other physical influences or challenges, they choose it just to have the experience.

For this reason, how can we judge? For we do not know what that individual's path is. Only their higher mind can judge them and even then it is not on a dark level of judgment that is prevalent in ego. Our Higher Mind always allows us to have free will except in some life threatening situations and only gives advice and help when ask for it, as it relates to our life's purpose.

If there is no right or wrong and we are only experiencing different shades of gray or to put it another way, different levels and varieties of beliefs that we are separate from God when we are in fact not, then who are we to attack someone or even defend our own beliefs. When we understand or become enlightened enough that we know that in the eyes of God, who wants us to have these experiences in order to grow and know what love is, we are acting out our own truths. "Truths" in this case being varying levels of illusory separation from the ultimate truth that is God or love.

The experiences we have are only truths because they come from God's desire to know himself and in order to know himself, she creates the illusion that she has many parts that are separate. This happens so they can experience what God is like from the illusion of feeling separate. In the same way, in order to really know love, we must experience darkness. If we never experience the darkness then we never feel anything outside of love. To God, love would just be a state she has never felt because she has never known anything else.

From a transsexual perspective, if we want others to be open and respect our choice for experience, then maybe we should not push our beliefs onto them. They need to come to their conclusions on their own but we can help by creating a space of love for them. A field that when they step into it, helps them remember who they are and the connection we all have.

When we let go of resistance, defending, and judging we create this space. It allow those in lower vibration to heal their root chakras and their kundalini to rise and open other closed off chakras. In this way, we are creating a space for them to be compassionate but we shouldn't expect it. Nor should we force them to change because this would only create more force back at us since the universe acts as a mirror.

Transsexuals can also immerse themselves in their communities and show these people respect for their beliefs as long as they are not harming you physically. If you are a sensitive person then do more inner work to learn not to take things personally through understanding what the ego is and it's condition. This allows us to have compassion for those who are in judgment rather than being defensive towards them.

In another way, allowing more diverseness in our communities and states allows more choice and more feeling of freedom. If you want to be a KKK member, you can move to the KKK state or community for example but everyone should be free to travel to whichever community they want. Giving them the freedom for their soul to expand can help them see the light but forcing them to change usually takes much much longer if it works at all. If they commit murder or intrude on someone else's path then we take them out of society and offer them help. How is their healing gauged before we allow them back in? I don't know but I believe we can figure it out.

In a nutshell, when we leave these bodies, we are no longer in physical form and so we don't have a sex. We are just an energy signature that can be masculine, feminine, or androgynous. The closer we move up in dimensions the more androgynous we become. Focusing too much on the physicality of sex will actually keep one from achieving enlightenment and ascension. Does that mean we need to be bisexual to achieve those things? No, just a detaching from the overly physical aspects. Does this mean we have to let go of enjoying physical sex? No, but be sure that you are giving your spiritual body time as well to develop through disciplines like meditation. yoga, and mindfulness.

IMHO, the more focus we put on sex and what organs someone has the more physical we become. Is this bad? No, nothing is bad from a higher level perspective, but perhaps our choices to be overly physical are creating more suffering than we wish for through judgment, hate, and resentment. If it is our goal to become personally enlightened or an enlightened community, then being overly focused on our bodies is a form of attachment to them that will make it harder for us to ascend to higher (lighter) less physical dimensions.

Of course, ascension is actually an illusion because we are all multidimensional beings already.

​Could it be possible that those who call others racists are actually judging too? Isn't this the same type of energy as the so-called racists they are judging? Most racism is in this country, or at least what people call racism, is made up of a large spectrum of different shades of grey rather than black or white so to call someone a racist is using the very same type of negative language that is meant to cause harm and hurt a group of people.

To some extent many people who are biased towards other cultures or races have not spent time with these people who on the surface appear to have a different set of beliefs than them and have been conditioned either by their family, close friends, government, or media to be in fear or suspiscion of another group of people.

On another level, there are many who deny being racists and have friends and even family that are members of these other races and yet are still labeled racists by a group with opposing views. Many of these so-called racists don't hate someone for their skin color, but are reacting to that group because of their blind allegiance to their political party which at the core believes the opposing party is passing laws that result in giving handouts for their vote.

Helping those in need is not something they wouldn't normally have a challenge with if it wasn't for their feeling that their money that was being taken from them and used for the purpose of creating more dependence of government which then creates more and more programs thus being a form of unconscious slavery.

Is it possible that the challenge is not that they have hate for another race of people, but that these so-called racists are aligned with their groups views which becomes their ego's status quo. Anything that threatens their status quo will be attacked especially since in this case their money is being taken from them and given to those with opposing views. This is not racism but a form of cognitive dissonance combined with a disposition of surviving instead of thriving.

​Is their truth in calling an out entire group of people based on the their choice of electing a candidate that is perceived to be racist? Perhaps their perception is different than yours. Perhaps they do not believe they are voting for a racist because they don't watch the same news as you and don't have the same fears as you.

Mainstream media perhaps is one of the most prolific egoic mass manipulation tools ever created. These organizations prey on creating reaction and keeping us in fear so that we develop an attachment to the belief system (reality) they are pushing. This attachment becomes so strong that we will defend these beliefs at all costs. Even believing them to be our truth as well and in essence becoming our religious belief that can not be challenged by any one's logic or intuition. It is normally only through suffering that we learn our beliefs are no longer in our best interests.

This state is often referred to as unconsciousness because our attachment to the belief is usually based in fear and keeping us from using our intuition because we are in a perpetual state of survival. When we are in an excessive "survival mode" we are using (abusing) all the endorphins and chemicals that are created by our bodies for the fight or flight response which from a soul's perspective, keep us trapped within our physical bodies and unable to receive guidance from a higher (deminsional) source.

We have deception and manipulation detectors built into our etheric bodies but they are only active in the higher chakras and are mostly ignored when we are in survival mode. We are in essence blocking our Higher Mind's guidance when we are in extreme survival mode.

This is useful when you are being chased by a saber-toothed tiger but otherwise makes us easily manipulated. When one is using only basic instincts, they are reactionary and will react in a predictable and instinctual way. This can be used to manipulate a group of people to a particular pre-planned action, as is the case with false flag events. When one is calm and at peace, they will respond from a place of wisdom and think outside the box, seeing the other person's perspective, and approaching a situation with love, collaboration, and a feeling of being of service rather than being in self preservation mode.

The mainstream media are nothing but reality pushers catering to an egoic need for more drama. An addiction created initially from emotional state of fear but then held in place by the physical endorphin rush one gets as a result of the emotional state. Eventually, after prolonged addiction to fear and the belief systems associated with it, the brain rewires itself and then that belief system becomes their permanent reality, a reality they believe in so strongly they will die to preserve it.

​Perhaps they do believe that their chosen candidate is a racist, however, they voted for them anyway due to their fear of what would happen if the opposing candidate won. This is out of integrity with their belief system. If they want to live in a world without racism then selecting a racist candidate, even if it's out of fear, will create more of what they don't want.

This is why it is so important to maintain integrity with your values and beliefs. Your beliefs are not the fear you are experiencing as a reaction, but the core of who you are when you not in fear, that which is your soul. The biggest challenge to creating change in the world, is staying in integrity despite what your reality is showing you. After all, it's all just an illusion.

​From a spiritual perspective, as a member of one of these groups that have a propensity to be judged or stereotyped in this way whether it be black people, gays, conservatives, or liberals, perhaps your lesson is not to judge, hate and/or stereotype those people who are judging you but to create a space for them to open up their heart. From my experience as a regression healer, you most likely incarnated into one of these "judged" races, not because you have mastered your ability to hate but because you have shown your capacity to love in previous lives are teaching others about judgement.

​Now these judged races have taken on the greater challenge and collective purpose of spreading love in a group that has so much judgement put on it. We all have our individual life plans and purposes when we incarnate into this school of egoic experience, but we also have a collective purpose as well.

For the LGBT community it's to let go of collective guilt, empower yourselves, speak up, and show others your immense capacity for love. For the black community their collective purpose is much the same.

Not only should we take those collective plans into account but also the collective plan of humanity, which is not to internalize judgment and hate and take things personally. We can choose to practice compassion and empathy, which means we must educate ourselves on the condition of the ego so that we understand why theses beings are acting in the way they are. This then creates a space for us to love them despite them.

BLESSINGS!
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Matthew Marnitz

Many might misunderstand what is meant by the ego based on a commonly used way for us to label people who we feel are overly confident about themselves or narcissistic. Would a narcissistic person have a big ego? well, yes but someone who has an ego is not necessarily narcissistic. Using this word to identify others who are narcissistic only confuses what the actual definition of the ego is from a spiritual point of view. A better way to describe them would be to say they are egotistical or an egomaniac. The ego is just a way of describing our conscious identity.

Here is the best definition of ego I could find from Urban Dictionary